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Ceremony

The type of ceremony determines the amount of planning required. We've broken the ceremony into two basic categories, religious and civil. Please note these are only a guide. Remember, this is a general outline and there are a number of variations of the Protestant faith.

Religious

Firstly depending on what religion you are and where you are being married, will determine the process of the ceremony. We have based our guide loosely on the protestant religion.

The processional: Traditionally, the groom and best man stand at the front of the church with the clergy, and the wedding party enters.

The introduction: The officiant begins the ceremony by greeting the congregation.

The readings: In most ceremonies, a friend or family member of the couple reads a passage from the Old and New Testament.

The vows and ring exchange: You may choose to write your own vows, be sure to discuss this with your minister.

The final blessing and recessional: After the pastor gives a final blessing, the wedding party exits the church in the following order: bride and groom, groomsmen and bridesmaids, parents of the bride, and finally the parents of the groom.


Civil

The beauty of having a civil ceremony, is that you can be married anywhere you want. Be sure to check out a number of venues before deciding on one, in case one particular venue is not available. The most important aspect of organizing your civil ceremony is the choosing your officiant. The key with the officiant is to select a person that will deliver an appropriate message and is a good speaker.

To ensure your ceremony runs smoothly on the big day, set up a rehearsal with all the people involved a few days before the wedding. This also gives everyone involved with the wedding to get together and celebrate your upcoming nuptials. Read more on Ceremony Rehearsal Tips.

Wedding Vow Examples

Whether you're opting for traditional vows or looking for a contemporary feel, here are some examples of wedding vows to provide you with inspiration.


I, _____, take you, _____,
to be my wife/husband;
to have and to hold
from this day forward
for better for worse
for richer for poorer
in sickness and in health
to love and to cherish
as long as we both shall live.
This is my solemn vow and promise.

I, _____, take you, _____,
to be my wife/husband;
to have and to hold;
to respect and appreciate you;
to be at your side in sadness and joy;
to suffer with and grow stronger with you;
to love and care for you always;
I promise you this from my heart,
with my soul for all the days of my life.
And if permitted beyond the walls of life, beyond the bounds of time.

_____, I give myself to you
as your wife/husband
All that I am I give to you.
And all that I have I share with you.
Wherever life may lead us.
Whatever the future holds.
I will love you and stand by you.
As long as we both shall live.